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Phyllis I. Whittam, MS, RN
Why did you choose hospice?
Honestly, just like nursing, hospice is a calling. Being a woman of faith, I enjoy listening to the Lord in a variety of ways. When I was 4 years old I wanted to follow in my mother’s footsteps and become a nurse like her and her two sisters. In high school I was privileged to volunteer as a “candy striper” (Not stripper- lol!) and work alongside my mom. That was back in the day when nurses wore white dresses, stockings, and shoes; and a nursing hat and pin!
My background in my “youth” was Acute Care Medicine at Mt Sinai Hospital in NYC, ICU /PACU at AMC and St. Peter’s. After receiving my Master of Science Degree, I became Community Health Educator and then an Education Specialist at AMC. After leaving nursing / education to raise my children, I went back to work in assisted living and private home care.
It was during this time I discovered how much I enjoyed being with patients, their families, and staff. After serving my beloved “Donna” for two years, she reached her end of life on hospice. I met the best nurses in the world who so lovingly educated us and cared for Donna and her family; LPN Patty, RN Kathy, and RN Phil. I’m so very thankful to God for all of these experiences that have led me to become an admissions nurse and then hospice liaison. Thanks to Marie Marvullo, our Hospice Director, who has inspired my career and pushed me into unchartered territory!
What are you most proud of?
Absolutely, positively my husband (Michael) and my two children (Mikey now 23, and Mikhaila now 18)!! The Lord led us (when I was age 40) to adoption! It was my dream fulfilled and years of prayers to be a mom. While I won’t go into details here (feel free to ask 🙂 I can only say it has been a miraculous journey! My courageous husband took my hand and we went to Cedar Rapids, Iowa in 1997 and then Prokopyevsk, Russia in 2003. My children are an incredible blessing and are growing to be sensitive, responsible, and loving. We could not have gone on this journey alone as we have walked in faith… and apprehension at times. But, as always, God has proved Himself faithful to us. I expect He will continue to do so on my journey with High Peaks Hospice. As I am reminded daily, like a family, so is hospice – a team! And I love, am blessed by, and can count on MY TEAM!Vicki Goodspeed, Admissions RN
Vicki Goodspeed, RN
What led you to Hospice?
My mother passed when I was 34 and she had hospice. It was my first experience with Hospice and I had lost my dad 5 years prior, before he was able to be admitted to hospice. My experience with Hospice was memorable and led me to know that a Hospice Nurse is what I wanted and needed to do. Soon after, I went back to school for my LPN and then my RN. During my years of school, I was able to touch into each nursing profession and see if I liked it. Nothing peaked my interest like Hospice did. I went on to do some home care to build skills to be able to be a good Hospice nurse. It always felt like a calling for me and being able to help a dying patient and their families through the most difficult time of their lives was what I wanted to do. It took me until I was almost 51 to start my dream job. In the past 3 years I have been able to be a small part in helping people face their final chapter. Other than my daughter and granddaughter, being a Hospice nurse is the most rewarding part of my life and I am grateful to be able to be here at High Peaks Hospice.
What do you do for fun?
For fun outside of work I love to spend time with my daughter and granddaughter first! I also enjoy making crafts, being on the beach by the ocean, and my biggest passion is my classic car. I enjoy going to car shows and spending time with all the classic car people. I love the sound of a burn out and the smell of rubber and exhaust in the air. It’s like a step back in time.
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